You know how important it is to read to your child and you've diligently read bed time stories to your kids since they were tiny. But now they're reading The Chronicles of Narnia on their own, do you really need to keep reading to them? At what point do you draw the line and just let them get on with it?
By Year Two or Three (around the age of seven to nine), children can usually read fluently enough to enjoy reading independently and they should be encouraged to do so. A child’s reading age, in general, catches up with their listening age around the age of 13.
This does not mean, however, that parents should stop reading aloud to their children altogether.
According to Scholastic’s ‘Kids & Family Reading Report’, only 10 percent of parents of children aged nine to 11 read aloud to their kids. Eighty-six percent of children said being read to was something they either loved or liked a lot – the main reason being because it is a special time with parents.
So when should you stop reading to your child? When they have had enough. This will happen quite naturally around the age of 13 ... but you can still enjoy reading poetry, plays or sketches together. Or just enjoy quiet time, reading independently, side-by-side on a lazy afternoon.
For inspiration on what to read to your child, try the Children’s Book Council of Australia Awards shortlist, the Dymock’s Top 51 Kids list, which is voted for by kids for kids, 50 Books all Kids should Read before they're 12, curated by Common Sense Media, or the 100 Best Books for Children of the last 100 Years, recommended by BookTrust.